No, your are wrong.Kildrought said:To the best of my knowlege if you are married, either or both partners can be persued by a bank or other creditor for repayment if one partner defaults.
All assets and liabilities are listed in regards to settlements.
You may find mediation helpful - the Family Mediation service is free; you'll find the number listed in the book.
For calculating maintenance, you'll find a good spread sheet on www.solo.ie