Clonakilty
I stayed there last new years. They have hotel and also apartments. We stayed in the apartments which were small but lovely.
The hotel was really good. It had an oldish bar, but it served the purpose and served really good bar food. The reception is huge.
They also have a really nice swimming pool. It is plenty big and total seperate area for kids. Also a jacuzzi, steam room and sauna. They have games room, but it basically just has a pool table and table tennis table.
There is a cinema on the grounds.. Never went though.
The hotel is about 1 mile far side of the town. We did not find a lot there, but it was miserable weather around then, so we stayed put basically.
I'm sure therer will be laods to do, one thing is for sure you'll like the hotel.