I was marp but haven't heard anything since I cleared my arrears.
You need to talk to AIB again.
They should facilitate you given that you showed good faith in clearing your arrears with your redundancy.
Even if they do not facilitate you, they have not got a hope in hell of getting an order for repossession against you.
What is your interest rate? A mortgage of €235k at say 1% is €2,350 interest per year or €200 per month or €50 per week. Can you pay that? If so, ask nicely to switch to interest only. If they refuse, just pay the interest only.
Then write to them telling them what you are doing.
1) Set out your history in full.
2) Point out that you acted in good faith and cleared the arrears.
3) Set out your efforts to find a job
4) Ask again that they switch you to interest only for 12 months so that you can avoid further arrears.
5) Tell them that even at that, you and your children are making huge sacrifices to pay the interest.
When writing the letter, think of the County Registrar in the repossession court who will be reading it. She will see that you are trying hard, and engaging fully with the lender.
If they refuse, you could also contact the Irish Mortgage Holders Organisation.
Brendan