AmoebaAsasin
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Well - look at it this way - over 25 years it totals €30,000 - so yes i think it is worth it.
Also other people may disagree with me on this. But I feel that the maintenance should be paid based on the childs situation, e.g. if the child is being brought up in a different country where the cost of living is lower than Ireland , then the amount of payment should reflect this.
I also am angry over the way this girl has treated me and I dont want to make it easy for her, its €300 a month gone into the void - it would be different if the child was in Ireland, i could at least have some input.
You are right - A DNA test is on the cards - this will be carried out as part of the court hearing.
i think that its 25 in Poland if the child decides to continue with 3rd level.
"It shouldnt be about the specific amount - it should be about giving your child a good life." Thing is - i will have nothing to do with this child - that's - i have no feelings for him, i know this sounds cold.
Anyway - i appreciate your feedback.
Im sure you could have changed addressed and 'disappeared' when it was clear she was not allowing you to have any input), it commendable
Ok - thanks everyone - I appreciate the advice. The court is in motion - my lawyer reckons that what she is demanding is quite high for Poland, so I guess ill see what happens , and take the judges verdict and go with it, cheers
rmelly - in the context of OPs first post, 6 month relationship with someone from a different country, its likely that it would be quite easy to disappear from someone in that position.
Not that it really matters, but I doubt that in this day and age that it is that easy what with the interweb and the bebo etc.
Chances are she knows where he worked, family, friends, his 'haunts' etc. He may own his house/apartment, so selling up and changing jobs to disappear would be quite drastic.
For the sort of money involved, first thing she'd do would be get a private investigator, after all he'd foot the bill for it when it got to court.
Id have to try and disappear to test it out.
Could a court in Poland force him to attend - do jurisdictions outside of Ireland have the right to force someone to attend (if its not a criminal matter).
Not that it really matters, but I doubt that in this day and age that it is that easy what with the interweb and the bebo etc.
Chances are she knows where he worked, family, friends, his 'haunts' etc. He may own his house/apartment, so selling up and changing jobs to disappear would be quite drastic.
For the sort of money involved, first thing she'd do would be get a private investigator, after all he'd foot the bill for it when it got to court.
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