I wouldn't expect you to be able to lodge a cheque made to a business to a personnal account, especially if it is crossed 'A/c only'. So no.
Not sure what you can do. Does the business owe money to anyone else?.. if not and it wound up 'peacefully' (not sure of legal term).. you could try and get Revenue to re-issue the cheque to you in your name if you are an outstanding creditor. Or maybe re-open the business account which may be difficult or impossible.
Is a directors loan money that you, as a director, lent to the company?
I don't fully understand what has happened?... the Revenue owe money to the business.. which is gone. But if it was a genuine overpayment to revenue, and the business closed with no debts.. then it does seem unfair that you cannot get the money. If the business has debts then it is even more important that the money is used to pay off any outstanding creditors. So I don't know what's up...