Definitely get the builder in, he should at least get the plumber in to set up your system properly. With Commissioning I mean that your boiler is set up properly, efficiently, and running to the best of its ability, also emmission wise etc. this ususlly does not get done with new builts as it involves getting a commissioning engineer. Keep an eye on your running costs for a few months if it seems excesive. You may need to get your boiler commissioned. Also get the plumber to explain the system to you and ask for manuals of your boiler, burner, thermostates, solar system etc. you should get them and put them away safely. This is a standard thing that mostly gets forgotten about. Ask all the questions no matter how insignificant you may think they are ask, and get them answered. That is your right. I know how plumber can react and esspecially if you are a woman ( I know as I am a female in this business and get this on a dailey basis) ignore the ignorance make a joke about it and get him to explain whatever you need to know. Good Luck, if you need help pm me.