CharlieMcC
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Was just told by a friend tonight about this website and you came with glowing reviews! I’ve trawled through the posts and have found a few people in an amazingly similarly miserable financial position to my own. Made note of the advice, which was superb.
But hoping some one might take a quick look at my figures and share your thoughts and maybe point me in the right direction in terms of starting to fix the mess I have created for myself.
You will see from the figures below that I have landed myself in shocking credit card debt, which is 99% due to online gambling – and it embarrasses me to even admit it. Largely through finding nomoregambling.com I haven’t bet a cent in 2 months (they block all access on your computer to gambling sites) and it feels fantastic. I’m still in deep trouble, but at least now I’m facing up to it and trying to deal with it.
The figures below aren’t good, to say the least, and I’m finally recognising how much trouble I’m in. The only relief is that I’ve now acknowledged that I will NEVER EVER have a gambling win big enough to solve all my financial troubles, which is what I lived on before. Online gambling honestly repulses me now, it has no attraction any more, it simply gobbles up idiots like me.
(Off on a tangent….I’m okay, I have no children to support, but I wonder at the misery online gambling is causing people who do. Companies like Paddy Power and Ladbrokes at least display some responsibility, they allow customers to either stop themselves from using their sites or to limit their spending. Others, like Stan James, have no limits whatsoever. It really is shameful. I honestly have no sympathy for childless fools like myself, I should know better, but god knows what financial hell families are going through when one of their own is gambling away every penny they possess. If I lose my home I only have myself to worry about, these people end up destroying the lives of their partners and children. Where’s the nanny state when you need it?!)
I should point out, before I became an addict it seemed like I had money to burn, things were good, and I loved nothing more than treating my parents and nieces and nephews (sorry if that sounds spewy!). I now hate myself intensely for blowing it all and not being able to look after the ones I love – with your help I hope to get on the road to being in that position again. Some day.
The figures –
Earnings: varies between 2800 and 3500 a month (after tax), usually about 3200
Savings: 0
Current Account Overdraft: 4000 (usually in the red)
Outgoings:
Mortgage: 1200
Loan 1: 370 (1 yr left)
Loan 2: 380 (2.5 yrs left)
NTL: 116
Eircom: 100 (approx)
ESB: 75 (approx)
Gas: next to nothing in this warm weather (last bill less than E20)
Life Insurance: 42
House Insurance: 41
Other: as little as possible at the moment. I don’t drive, so no expenses there. I work from home, so have next to no transport costs. Work pays for my mobile phone. Modest food bills, next to no socialising these days.
Total: 2600 approx (including misc outgoings)
CC Debts
Credit Card 1: 8000
Credit Card 2: 12000 (6000 of that was a balance transfer from CC1, 5 months left)
Have just been approved for a third credit card (CC3) which will allow me a 0% balance transfer (9 months) to the value of 6000. Will double check my interest rates and transfer from the dearer of my cards. Off the top of my head (I have the figures somewhere) I think that’s CC1, so:
I can clear 6000 from that CC1 8000 debt and, in a few months, should be able to clear it all (at which point I will rip it up).
That would leave me owing:
CC2: 12000 (6000 of which is that first balance transfer, 5 months left)
CC3: 6000 (9 months to clear)
Meantime, I’m not using my credit cards for anything, only paying in every spare cent I have.
House: bought 2 yrs ago, paid 315,000, now worth 445,000.
What do you think?
Can I manage these debts or should I be looking at other options, like topping up my mortgage?
Is topping up my mortgage a possibility, considering my debts?
Should I speak to MABS? Had never heard of them until tonight, they’re advising my friend on her debts.
Sorry for the long windedness, when I start I don’t know when to stop. Would be endlessly thankful for your opinions, thank you.
But hoping some one might take a quick look at my figures and share your thoughts and maybe point me in the right direction in terms of starting to fix the mess I have created for myself.
You will see from the figures below that I have landed myself in shocking credit card debt, which is 99% due to online gambling – and it embarrasses me to even admit it. Largely through finding nomoregambling.com I haven’t bet a cent in 2 months (they block all access on your computer to gambling sites) and it feels fantastic. I’m still in deep trouble, but at least now I’m facing up to it and trying to deal with it.
The figures below aren’t good, to say the least, and I’m finally recognising how much trouble I’m in. The only relief is that I’ve now acknowledged that I will NEVER EVER have a gambling win big enough to solve all my financial troubles, which is what I lived on before. Online gambling honestly repulses me now, it has no attraction any more, it simply gobbles up idiots like me.
(Off on a tangent….I’m okay, I have no children to support, but I wonder at the misery online gambling is causing people who do. Companies like Paddy Power and Ladbrokes at least display some responsibility, they allow customers to either stop themselves from using their sites or to limit their spending. Others, like Stan James, have no limits whatsoever. It really is shameful. I honestly have no sympathy for childless fools like myself, I should know better, but god knows what financial hell families are going through when one of their own is gambling away every penny they possess. If I lose my home I only have myself to worry about, these people end up destroying the lives of their partners and children. Where’s the nanny state when you need it?!)
I should point out, before I became an addict it seemed like I had money to burn, things were good, and I loved nothing more than treating my parents and nieces and nephews (sorry if that sounds spewy!). I now hate myself intensely for blowing it all and not being able to look after the ones I love – with your help I hope to get on the road to being in that position again. Some day.
The figures –
Earnings: varies between 2800 and 3500 a month (after tax), usually about 3200
Savings: 0
Current Account Overdraft: 4000 (usually in the red)
Outgoings:
Mortgage: 1200
Loan 1: 370 (1 yr left)
Loan 2: 380 (2.5 yrs left)
NTL: 116
Eircom: 100 (approx)
ESB: 75 (approx)
Gas: next to nothing in this warm weather (last bill less than E20)
Life Insurance: 42
House Insurance: 41
Other: as little as possible at the moment. I don’t drive, so no expenses there. I work from home, so have next to no transport costs. Work pays for my mobile phone. Modest food bills, next to no socialising these days.
Total: 2600 approx (including misc outgoings)
CC Debts
Credit Card 1: 8000
Credit Card 2: 12000 (6000 of that was a balance transfer from CC1, 5 months left)
Have just been approved for a third credit card (CC3) which will allow me a 0% balance transfer (9 months) to the value of 6000. Will double check my interest rates and transfer from the dearer of my cards. Off the top of my head (I have the figures somewhere) I think that’s CC1, so:
I can clear 6000 from that CC1 8000 debt and, in a few months, should be able to clear it all (at which point I will rip it up).
That would leave me owing:
CC2: 12000 (6000 of which is that first balance transfer, 5 months left)
CC3: 6000 (9 months to clear)
Meantime, I’m not using my credit cards for anything, only paying in every spare cent I have.
House: bought 2 yrs ago, paid 315,000, now worth 445,000.
What do you think?
Can I manage these debts or should I be looking at other options, like topping up my mortgage?
Is topping up my mortgage a possibility, considering my debts?
Should I speak to MABS? Had never heard of them until tonight, they’re advising my friend on her debts.
Sorry for the long windedness, when I start I don’t know when to stop. Would be endlessly thankful for your opinions, thank you.