hi DeeDee,
Tough situation to be in, i certainly don't envy you. I realise you posted this over a week ago, and you've probably already decided and acted one way or the other. If so let us know, it might be helpful for other readers. Anyway here's how I'd approach it:
Step 1: Add together the following:
- Amount of deposit you recieved from the purchaser (make absolutely certain you don't have to pay this back and that it is definitely non-refundable - t&c's can apply to deposits too)
This gives Total 1
Step 2: Now add the following together:
- the amount you've spent advertising your property, any agent fees you've paid or that you will have to still pay if sale fall through (possibly none)
- Amount of deposit you paid on the house you're buying (can you get this back? - if so then leave out of these calculations)
- Solicitor fees you'll have to pay if the sale falls through
This gives Total 2
Step 3:
- Work out the amount the amount of money you will have to spend to replace the "white items" at today's prices.
This gives Total 3
Subtract Total2 from Total1: If this is a negative number (eg. -3000) then this is how much money you lose if the sale falls through. If it is a positive number, (for example if you only paid a small deposit), then you may not lose out (financially) by abandoning the sale.
Whether or not this is a "buyer's market" is debateable, personally I think buyers and sellers are on an even playing field at the moment and neither has the upper hand. However regardless of whether or not house prices rise or fall over the next while should not really affect you. If the value of your house falls, then the chances are that so will the value of any house you want to buy, and likewise if prices go up. (this is overly simplistic but generally it balances out once you're already on the property ladder imo). But you must take account of Total3 (cost of the white goods to replace)above when making any decision. If you are losing more money by abandoning the sale than it would cost you to replace the White Goods, then be careful that you do not "cut off your nose to spite your face!".
Sorry if I made this seem overly complicated, it should be easy enough to work out when you have a pen and paper in front of you! Anyhow this is a method that I would use to help me reach a decision.