And/or report him/her (with relevant paper-trail) to the
http://www.lawsociety.ie/?
I'd a very unpleasant experience along these lines, some years ago, when my own Dad passed away unexpectedly. The appointed executors took 2 years to "execute" a perfectly straightforward estate, with all the paperwork already done for them in advance, then demanded an obscenely fat fee for their trouble (and nothing I could do about it, on legal advice). I was also billed through the nose for a "consultation" fee every time I'd contacted them to try to move things along (on foot of the meaningless written response/"form" letter they'd send me, each time). And guess what? Several years down the line, long after "final settlement" had been made, it turned out they'd
still managed to cock up a couple of simple issues... (at least they hadn't the gall to bill me for notifying me of those!) :mad:
I've made sure since that neither "they" nor any-of-their-like will get a penny from my own (far more modest) estate, come the day...
If the executor is a private individual, as opposed to a solicitor/financial institution, you unfortunately will have to go to court, as PINK has said. It sounds like you have ample grounds, though. Run it by an independent solicitor and get an honest

rolleyes:?), "up-front" quote as to what his/her fees will be, then calculate the odds.