You're more than welcome, Westgolf.
Mum doesn't want to go into a home either, but it's unavoidable now. Everything takes two people to do for her now, and she's a high falls risk from Parkinson's Disease, throw in End Stage kidney failure, and the recent development of seizures, and you get the picture. As a wheelchair user on my own, it would now be dangerous for me to continue to care for her, so after seven and a half years of caring for her, I have to concede defeat, and let the professionals take over. I'm not dealing with it well. VERY emotional!.
The whole issue is now complicated by the fact that my mum's on Peretoneal Dialysis, and none of the private homes seem keen to take that on three times daily. I'm glad, though, because public homes are better at a lot of stuff. Transport to hospital appointments etc, and doctors on site 24/7 in the case of the one she's going into.
Please keep in touch, too. Think it could be good for us to compare notes occasionally since we're both doing this and around the same time, too. PM me if you prefer.
God bless, and again, you'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Darth.