BF Unemployed for the last 2 years

Sounds like he is in a comfort zone. Virtually free cash, expenseless living, an enabling girlfriend. He has to know that this isnt viable into the future but is probably talking himself into denial about it or saying "next week, next month" etc I'll do it.
I can imagine you're frustrated and wouldnt be letting yourself go into denial that hes about to change or that you can do much to force change on him.
Think you should start to discuss the future with him, maybe dreams you have like exotic holidays, building your own house etc things one would need to be working towards and see how he reacts. Gradually cut off the help you are giving him in terms of lifts etc and things he should be doing for himself. Maybe approach it all now as a new years resolution thing while that opportunity is there. Give him a list of FAS courses and realistically if he cant find anything there you may be presenting him with an ultimatum. Cant see how leaving him in his comfort zone is good for anyone.
 
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